There are two questions that will get total strangers laughing and sharing stories. I experienced it first hand at a conference a couple years ago.
There were hundreds of us in the room. Some knew each other and most did not. The facilitators asked us to divide into groups based on the decade in which we were born.
If you were born in the 70s, move to the back corner…the 80s, over here at the side…
We were asked to talk about these two questions:
1. What do you remember wearing as a teenager?
2. Do you remember the first record, 8 track, cassette, CD, or download you bought?
I met a lady who grew up in the Ukraine. As a teenager, the first cassette she bought was AC/DC. She even put an AC/DC patch on her bag that she carried around school. Funny thing was, she had no idea who they were. Everyone talked about them so she played along. Secretly, she loved classical music and went on to study it.
It took a while for the facilitators in the room to bring us back together. Yes!!! I remember that… Oh my god, I did that too…
You might be wondering if it’s a good idea or not to divide people by age. I found that it was actually a lot of fun because it brought people together around some similar experiences. We also had choice with which group to join. Depending on your workplace and group dynamics, you’ll know whether it’s an icebreaker to try or not.
I decided to bring this icebreaker into an online course I was teaching.
Sharing what we wore and laughing about our bad fashion sense brings us together. It makes us more than a name on the screen, but rather another person who also made mixed tapes from the radio or used wwaaaaaay too much hairspray back in the day. It creates connections.
It encourages us to open up to strangers and share a little bit of ourselves. Which in turn, makes it more likely for us to comment on each other’s work, ask questions, or reach out with an email.
So if you also wore a Northern Reflections sweatshirt or loved a good bodysuit (not the ones for swimming folks), share a comment to this blog! What did you wear as a teen? What album did you first buy?
We don’t need to be strangers anymore…